Dear Teed, thank you for your comment, but this is a conversation amongst people of the African diaspora, of which, by your own self description, do not belong. As a White Person, you don’t have the right nor the room to tell BIPOC, specifically Black people, how to approach our own cultural issues. It’s presumptuous to think you do. The same way I wouldn’t walk into your home, uninvited & unwanted, and tell you how to clean your house or pay your bills is the same way you should approach discussions Black people are having with Black people; it’s none of your business. Your profile says that you are here to “learn from those on the margins.” Let this be a lesson: stay out of business that doesn’t concern you